Sethula umugqa wethu omusha wezibuko zokufunda ezisesitayeleni, zekhwalithi ephezulu, ezenzelwe ikakhulukazi owesifazane wamanje ojabulela kokubili ubuhle nokusebenza. Izibuko zethu zokufunda zithuthukisa umbono wakho futhi zikhuphule i-ante yesitayela sakho emhlabeni lapho okuvelayo kokuqala kubalwa khona. Lezi zibuko zingaphezu nje kwensiza yokufunda ngenxa yephethini yazo yedayimane ehlukile kuhlaka; futhi benza isitatimende futhi banikeze ukuthintana komuntu siqu kunoma iyiphi inhlangano.
Izibuko zethu zokufunda eziklanywe ngokucophelela zenziwe ngezinto ezisezingeni eliphezulu eziqinisekisa ukunethezeka nokuphila isikhathi eside. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufunda isikhathi eside, uhlola amadokhumenti abalulekile, noma ufunda nje izindatshana zakho eziyintandokazi ku-inthanethi, lawa mafreyimu angasindi, agqokeka usuku lonke alungile. Into eyodwa ehlukile eyenza lezi zibuko zihluke iphethini yedayimane kuhlaka. Ukukhanya okuhle okuvela kuyo kuveza umphumela ocwebezelayo oheha ukunaka futhi uthole ukudunyiswa. Kwabesifazane abathanda ukuveza ubuntu babo kuyilapho bebukeka besitayela futhi becolile, lobu buhle obuhlukile bulungile.
Ezweni lanamuhla lemfashini, ukuguquguquka kubalulekile, futhi izibuko zethu zokufunda zenziwe zihambisane nokubukeka okuhlukahlukene. Lezi zibuko zihamba kahle ngempahla ngayinye, noma ngabe uzigqokele ukuya emhlanganweni wochwepheshe, ukuba nosuku olupholile nabangane, noma ukuzulazula nje endlini. Zifanele kokubili izilungiselelo ezihlelekile nezingakahleleki ngenxa yedizayini yazo eyinkimbinkimbi, eqinisekisa ukuthi uhlale ubukeka kahle kakhulu ngenkathi ugcina umbono wakho.
Kanye Nento eyodwa ehlukile eyenza lezi zibuko zihluke iphethini yedayimane kuhlaka. Ukukhanya okuhle okuvela kuyo kuveza umphumela ocwebezelayo oheha ukunaka futhi uthole ukudunyiswa. Kwabesifazane abathanda ukuveza ubuntu babo kuyilapho bebukeka besitayela futhi becolile, lobu buhle obuhlukile bulungile.
Ezweni lanamuhla lemfashini, ukuguquguquka kubalulekile, futhi izibuko zethu zokufunda zenziwe zihambisane nokubukeka okuhlukahlukene. Lezi zibuko zihamba kahle ngempahla ngayinye, noma ngabe uzigqokele ukuya emhlanganweni wochwepheshe, ukuba nosuku olupholile nabangane, noma ukuzulazula nje endlini. Zifanele kokubili izilungiselelo ezihlelekile nezingakahleleki ngenxa yedizayini yazo eyinkimbinkimbi, eqinisekisa ukuthi uhlale ubukeka kahle kakhulu ngenkathi ugcina umbono wakho.
Kanye nokukunikeza ukunethezeka nokucaca okudingayo. Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi bafeza izidingo eziphakeme kakhulu zokusebenza kokubona, wonke amapheya afakwa kunqubo yokuhlola ephelele. Ungabukeka umangalisa futhi ujabulele izincwadi zakho eziyintandokazi, amaphephabhuku, nokuzijabulisa kwedijithali ngaphandle kokucisha amehlo akho.
Sengiphetha, noma yimuphi owesifazane ofisa ukuhlanganisa ubuhle nokusebenza uzothola izibuko zethu zokufunda ezisezingeni eliphezulu, ezisesitayeleni, ezinephethini yedayimane zibe isengezo esifanelekile. Lezi zibuko zenza isitatimende esesitayeleni ngaphezu kokuba isidingo ngenxa yesitayela sazo esihlukile, ukwakheka okuguquguqukayo, kanye nezinketho zokupakisha ongazikhetha. Ngokukhetha kwethu okuhle, ungaveza ukuhluka kwakho futhi uthuthukise ulwazi lwakho lokufunda. Ungafundi nje ngesitayela; sebenzisa konke ukubukeka ukuze wenze umbono. Thola izibuko zokufunda ezifanele ezihambisana nobuntu bakho futhi uthuthukise umbono wakho njengamanje!